The longing, the desire to embrace our children is so bad that sometimes is almost unbearable. So. But deep down we know that, although nothing is equal and we can not embrace them, they exist. Scientists say that energy is neither created nor destroyed, it transforms. And that, in our times clear, sorry to burst. In those magical moments you can hear a little voice inside that whispers to us that love is indestructible, not only have the hours, days, years we've been here together, we also have a shared future. It is not like what we had imagined, no, but can be so beautiful! At the beginning of the duel, perhaps of little use what I say. It is with patience and time that certainty prevails. Twelve years ago he went Ignacio, has had to spend much time to feel what I feel. At first, the pain was so heavy! The change was so sleazy and gross, Long time to settle the soul after such a blow. A lot. During this long journey that is the match we have to transform in people responsive to love, because it is only through the vibration of love that we feel our hand to our children. A day comes when we turn to walk together, they in their plane, following his destiny and we are here, following our own, but as united as before. It is worth persevering, worth creating love and harmony, instead of throwing in the towel and let it slowly consume our lives. We must live intensely draining sadness to put hope in revival, to re-experience the joy of living. The more I feel more happy and content I perceive my child. More I think that honor. We who know well what is wanting to be dead, decided to come back to life by love, the love we feel for them, for the love that we grow, slowly and with effort, by ourselves.